You begin by saying, “I wish to free her so she can find another man and have kids.” Am I to assume that your wife feels trapped in a marriage that she no longer wants to be in because of your infertility? If so, there are two options that you two have.

1) You can seek COUNSELING with godly believers who will help you through this. Proverbs 11:14 says, “Where there is no counsel, the people fall; but in the multitude of counselors there is safety.” Hopefully they would show you from Scripture that there is much more to marriage than having children and that you need not feel guilty if one of you is infertile. In saying this, I’m not trying to minimize the blessing there is in having children, but there are countless married couples that are in the same position as you two are who love each other enough to enjoy a satisfying and fulfilling life together without children.

2) You can ADOPT a child. There are 1,000s upon 1,000s of married couples who face infertility that have taken advantage of this option. In doing so, they have not only been blessed in becoming parents but they have also been a real blessing to a child who is living without parents in an orphanage. In many cases they come to love the child as if he/she was their own and often their family relationship is just as precious as families with biological children.

If, for whatever reason, you and/or your wife reject these options, there is no other option available to you if you desire to follow the teachings of Scripture. The Bible is crystal-clear that infertility is NOT a reason for divorce; in fact, there is only one exception that justifies divorce, and that is INFIDELITY. I will end my answer by quoting Matthew 19:3-9, “The Pharisees also came to Him (Jesus), testing Him, and saying to Him, ‘Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?’ And He answered and said to them, ‘Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning made them male and female and said, For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh? So then, they are no long two but one flesh. Therefore what God HAS JOINED TOGETHER, LET NOT MAN SEPARATE.’ They said to Him, ‘Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?’ He said to them, ‘Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, EXCEPT FOR SEXUAL IMMORALITY, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.”  (367.1)  (DO)